Monday, February 2, 2009

Fear and Unmet Needs

We are on to another topic - Fear and Unmet Needs. I love the quote Laura used in this week's inspirational e-newsletter:

"We are all familiar with the Golden Rule: 'Love thy neighbor as thyself.' But if you do not love yourself as much as your neighbor, you are not living the principle. If you were as kind to yourself as you are to others, you would find great peace and release."
~ Alan Cohen

I think it's no coincidence that we study Fear and Needs in the month we celebrate Valentine's Day, the day devoted to Love. Love is the opposite of Fear. And if we Love ourselves, we meet our own Needs. And we all want Love, right?

This most especially applies to ourselves. As the quote above says, "If you were as kind to yourself as you are to others, you would find great peace and release." Can you imagine what it's like to show love to yourself? Think about how you really would like people to treat you, then can you do it for yourself? If you are not taking care of yourself or meeting your own needs, why not? In honor of Valentine's Day, take time out to love yourself. Don't forget to share your ideas with us!

1 comment:

Denise said...

Marya and Laura: This is one of my favorite focuses because frankly I do not bring enough attention to it!The more reminders I have had over the years to focus on my unmet needs and rely more on myself has been so important. I am less needy at home and to others. When I do feel down or needy, I tend to journal and try to get to heart of the matter. It always comes out that way! And it helps, I can then do something really nurturing for myself and it will bring my energy back up.
Light and Love, Denise